I’m the same way. Can’t stand earbuds that are just sort of loosely dangling from your sound holes.

That being said, Bose has some good earbud design. The fittings that go into your ear also have little wing supports that fit snugly into your ear folds, and do a great job of keeping them stable without being uncomfortable.

My only issue is that they’re slowly dying, but I’ve had them for like 3 years at this point so I can’t really complain.