That’s totally my point. I seeking advice If someone was in similiar situation and got used to it …and my share his tips. I have long return window due to christmas. but I don’t know what to do…its only 200 bucks difference so I thought get the best phone.but you are absolutely right I will see If I can adjust if not I may have to switch to the plus.

the 14 pro max is even more weight I know…

that’s true…but still is not comfortable enough for me on phone calls longer than 15 mins or watching YouTube one handed I have to change hands in between…I know its sound funny…therefore looking for tips how to get used to it. Iam coming from an iPhone SE…never had a big phone before. but thanks for weighing in.