The s23 and s23+ cameras are good too. The ultras just has some extra stuff. Idk how the 14 pro max feels but the ultra is boxy and big. I have small bands but I like bigger phones. It’s not uncomfortable for me. I think it’s preference. I have heard people say iphone is more comfy but I have heard people say s23u is more comfy. I would say look up YouTube videos about all there phone cameras to be able to make your choice.
Wait for the s24. The s23u is great and I just got it but I should’ve just waited tbh. The s23u is a curved screen and most people like flat. Also, the s24 will be faster. Thats not to say the s23 isn’t. It’s still a beast of a phone. I would hang on for another couple of months.